Keeping your memory going, remembering you always, x

Hi, Thinking of you today, N xx

Thinking of Phil today, xx

My daughter emma louise also died suddenly in her sleep only 17 years old. There was no medical reason for this. It is so cruel to take our children away from us. Thoughts to you all

god bless all your family from karen dagg 02/06/09

Thoughts are with you, never forgotten because they're always on your mind - god bless

What a wonderful son. Remembering Philip has emotionally touched deep within my heart. Thankyou for letting me share your memories god bless carol x

god bless all our loved ones and hope and pray that one day we will all be together xxx

So many precious young lives cut short. For what it is worth and to whom it may give comfort we Cheryl's Mum and Dad have relived the all to short life of this kind, intelligent and caring young man. He is not forgotten and God has him in his care as he does for kind and precious souls who are taken so young. God Bless you and all his family. http://cheryl.hamilton.muchloved.com

My Thoughts Are With Him x

I lost my brother four years ago, in January. He was always there for us and then one day he was gone from congestive heart failure and pneumonia. Never got the chance to say good bye. I can never get over his loss. And I know to this day what you are going through. My parents are still not the same. My wedding this year brought a happiness to their faces that was long lost since my brother died. If only for a little while, I could see their happiness and a sense of it is okay to let go. My brothers music and dance will always play a part in our hearts. If only people would have recognized and acknowledged him for his accomplishments, maybe he would have gone to a doctor in time.

I couldn't sleep, that is normal for me now and I accept it - why because my son Richard who was 32 died on March 15th of this year. He had kidney cancer and it was growing quietly in his body that by the time he was diagnosed it was too late. I was looking for comfort -also a norm these days - I typed in 'how to cope with the lost of a loved one' and this website popped up. I read your diary, thank you from the bottom of my heart because now I know that we share a common bond - the trauma, the anger, the searching are all part of our process of grieving. It does't make it go away but because you have allowed access into your personal grief thoughts it has helped me greatly. I don't know if I have the strength to start a website just yet but I want to. Bless your family for comforting me, Susanne...

They say that time heals, and I don't believe it for a minute, we simply learn to cope, however we take with us the smiles, the joys and the memories that will never fade along with the love thats clearly there in Philip's eyes and in your hearts.

God Bless you and your family

i have read this familys journey through their griefwith increasing wonder at their unending pride and love for this young soul,and no matter what the circumstances surrounding a death of a loved one it is tragic enough they are gone. not from our hearts and minds but only our physical surroundings i hope that they continue to cope with their loss in the dignified way they have.bless all of you and hope you find peace in whatever manner you can

Sorry to hear about Philip

I came across this web site by mistake really,i just want to say im a 31yr old ex royal marine a tough guy i thought,philips life story broke my heart i couldnt stop crying,i could tell he is missed deeply and that he has a wonderful family,what a tribute! heartbraking from Scott x

Thinking of you and your family I can see the pain of your loss on your site and pray that you can live side by side with the sadness and maybe smile a little as well George Barnaby (Bushey)

So sad for your loss, I know only to well how you feel I lost my daughter very recently she was only 25 it happened very suddenly, there are no words that can describe how you feel, thinking off you Kim's Mum

so sorry!

I losted my 16 year old daughter in april 2003. Reading through your tribute to your son/brother touched my heart so much. I sit here with tears streaming down my face knowing that you feel the same at times. God bless you and keep you under the Shadow of His Wing. We will see their faces again.

thinking of u at this time and i hope u find happiness in memories and comfort in love. sending u all my love and hugs to jon who is a special friend and all his family. love Tarryn

Thinking of you all at this sad time. My son's anniversary is coming on the 31st march,so I am understanding how you must feel at this time.

So sorry for your loss. Philip looks full of life and fun.

Our thoughts are with you, we know only too well what you are going through and i hope this goes someway to help you cope with your grief. God bless you - all the family and friends of the late beloved daniel babbington xxxx

so sad - GODBLESS

I'm so sorry....God be with you. Cathy xx

I know how you feel. I lost a son in 2003 in a car accident. He was only 14. This site brought tears to my eyes, it's absolutely beautiful. Joey's Mum.

thinking of you - may you be blessed juanita

I came across your thoughts as I was making a memorial for my son David who passed over in March 2003, he was 36 and I know how you feel. It is a lovely remembrance to your brother and son

What do you make of all of this? All in all pretty cool? Still remembering.

I am so touched by your story, i'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you xx

Bless you and your family

So Peaceful. You have really shown a new and inspirational way to remember a loved one. Out of your darkness has come light for others...

hello, i didnt know phil, but i stumbled across this memorial while making a memorial to my mum who passed away three months ago, im sure my mum is up there now cooking meals for phil as she loved cooking. and im sure hes up there looking down on all his friends and family and feeling so proud. lots of love.. Tarryn ...feel free to email me

god bless you phil, love from rachel thomas' mum xxx

You and your family are in my prayers. Martha

Just saying hello and sending my wishes

To inspire is to feel the touch of life To inspire is to be timeless

sending our wishes

this is a really lovely tribute site, you were obviously a loving family

sending you my love

You should be very proud of what you've created and how it will help others; now that's what I call a tribute to Phil. Much love.

I am I and you are you, whatever we were to each other that we still are. Call me by my old familiar name, Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?

Lighting a candle for Phil today

Now over 10 years! August 2006

'Life is a great surprise. I do not see why death should not be an even greater one.'